A Guide To Your FTM Boyfriend

It looks like you are already doing a great job just by making sure he’s comfortable and seeking out advice and help.

Be honest with him and ask him questions when you are unsure of something. That is the only sure way to make sure you are doing what you need to. Also, be patient. It sounds like you already are, but just knowing that it may take him longer to be okay with some things will help a lot, and being pushy can only make things worse.

If there is something specific you need advice about just let me know! Also, you can message me off anon and we can keep the conversation private as well.

I hope this helped.. even a little.

Tiegen

What advice are you looking for?

This is completely understandable. If you are not comfortable with telling your parents, then don’t tell them. You need to be comfortable as well, especially if the relationship hasn’t gotten serious yet.

I think he is worried that you are trying to keep him a secret, and I am sorry if I am wrong. I wouldn’t keep it a secret, but I would wait to announce a serious relationship until the relationship has progressed a little and you have had some deep conversations about the specifics of what the relationship means, just like any other relationship.

Let him know that you will tell them in time, but you don’t want to rush in to anything, that you are not comfortable telling them yet.

Other than the relationship needing to progress, is there anything else that may be holding you back? Are you worried about how your parents may react (even though they know everything else), because of how your sisters reacted? Has your relationship gone public and the only people that don’t know are your parents? All of these things can contribute to your dilemma.

If you would like to talk more please feel free to ask, or come off anon and we can talk privately. Also if anyone has any tips or stories they would like to share please feel free to submit them and get some interaction going!

I hope everyone has a great week!

Tiegen

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The Table of Contents was created by the original Admin, and what she was expecting for each page is unclear to me. Also, she was working on having a lot of the followers collaborate and give different points of views for the chapters.

I really do want to start working on it more, but I won’t have time for a few more weeks. I will only be working this summer, so I will definitely have more time to work on the chapters. Sorry for the inconvenience!!!

The hormones can have a lot to do with it because it can make mood swings more severe. For instance he will be very happy when he’s happy, and when he is sad he can seem depressed.

I understand where you are coming from. Kadyn used to live in Colorado while I lived in Michigan.

When he is bored with you he may be separating himself from the situation, in order to make being apart less painful. He may not realize the how much it’s bothering you. There may also be other things going on at home that he can just forget about when he is with you, making the difference more noticeable.

I would try talking to him about it. Let him know how you feel about it too, otherwise he may never even notice that it’s bothering you. Having deep conversations over the phone, or skype, can seem easier but it’s still hard to communicate clearly. Try talking to him about it when you get to visit. Making it a big deal may make him shut down, so just try to reassure him that you are there for him if he needs to talk.

It can be really hard to tell what is going on, especially in the early stages of T. Just be honest about your feelings.

Sorry it took so long to respond. My daughter was on spring break and it has been hectic around here. I hope everyone had a great Easter!

Tiegen